Why I Vote 2018

They say this is going to be the most impotant midterm election of my generations life time, and that we are seeing some of the largest voter turn out. In the last two years, no matter witch side of the aisle the party you most idtentify with sits on, we have become a country devited more than one that has been united, Congress and who is in it has a lot, if not everthing to do with that.

People ask me why I vote? I vote in this and nearly every other election, because it is my right, responsibilty and previlage as an American to do so, I do it to make my voice heard, I vote for those who are unable to do so, for the 9 children in my extended family who can’t, those with severe mental handycaps, the elderly, for the American citizens who are yet to be.

I don’t want to be, nor wil I ever be one of those people who chooses not to vote, then complains when I do not like how things turn out, I refuse to let others tell me, convince me, that one voice, one vote cant make a difference.

Too many men and women have died and or have gotten severly injured for me to not vote, the wonderful Men and Women of our Armed Forces go out each and every day to defend our rights, one of those rights being, the right to vote.


The Trickle Down Affect…….

Earlier today, after a racist tweet put out by the show’s headliner, one I will not post here because I refuse to give it any more publicity than it has already gotten, Roseann was canceled.

At first, I was thrilled, because even though we all have freedom of speech in this country when we take that freedom so far as to disrespect and discriminate against others, there must be action, swift and firm action, but along with Rosanne’s firing. the entire cast and crew are now jobless. I am less worried about the actors than I am about the crew, many of the cast members have other projects they are working on so they will be fine, but, the crew, lighting, camera’s hair makeup, all the behind the scenes stuff that we the at-home audience does not see, they may not be so lucky. I hope Roseann realizes how her remarks have affected everyone else on the crew of her show, but I am not going to hold my breath

It Never Gets Easier

I have been working at local assisted living home for close to 8 years now, (my eight year anniversary will be in June.) One thing that never gets easier is losing a resident, or two, weather it be them passing away or moving out, this week we are dealing with the loss of two, one of whom moved out today, she has been a resident there as long(or longer actually) then I have been an employee. Ours is Unique home, there are two building to it, an older part, where the kitchen, chapel, and dinning room is located, and the newer half where the offices and apartments are. Sorry for the little detour, but it an essential part to this blog, Our resident that moved out today is nun, long before there was an assisted living home, there was housing for retired nuns, we have about 10 nuns that reside in the newer half of the building, well now about nine.


We knew the time was coming for this particular nun to move out, but is still an adjustment, she is such a hoot, if you met her on the street, you would never guess that she is a nun, she is spunky a jokester and does not take life to seriously, she walked with a cane (just recently switched to a walker) she used to take her cane off the ground and point it at you, saying nothing and for whatever reason it never felt threatening, just funny, everything about her was funny, she is from the Phillipians and apparently therethey say “Fruits” instead of just “Fruit” so every night at dinner she would come into the dinning room and order “Fruits, no Pineapple” she LOVES ice cream, especially anything that had chocolate in it, cookies and cream, mocha almond fudge, and of course plain old chocolate ice, cream, we had chocolate ice cream for dessert tonight(Wednesday February 21st, I just pulled a random container of ice cream out of the freezer. This is has been my first full week with out her since I started there nearly eight years ago (except for the times that she traveled to see family) but there I always knew she was coming back, this time I know she is not coming back, and when her parting words were “I will see you all in Heaven” that just hits you tight in the gut, it was sincere and sad something we were not used to seeing out of such a funny person.



Friday, February 23rd,

I was surprised to come into to work today and learn that our one resident that has been on hospice care for two weeks is still hanging on. I was truly expecting her to be gone, but if there is one thing I have learned in her short time with us, she will go when she is good and ready, she does things on her own time, in her own way.



What The BLEEP is going on in this country?!



* I wrote this blog (except the last paragraph) in real time

In the last two weeks we have heard from close to two hundred women who former Doctor Larry Nassar, team doctor for team USA Women’s Gymnastics and Michigan State University Women’s Gymnastic Team sexually assaulted. How did this happen you ask? these girls must have told someone right? Right? Well they did, in the case of Nassar’s victims at MSU. school employees were told by multiple women in 97,98,99,2000,2001, 2010 and,2014, same for Team USA multiple people were told, and it was either not reported to the proper authorities or these girls were made to believe, by Nassar, that what he was doing was just a “Typical exam” its not enough that he was allowed to abuse these women on Team USA, but then, by not stoping it, he was then allowed to continue his rein of terror at Michigan State University.

Why is this happening, why is this okay why did none of the adults stop this when they were told and told and told and told, over and over and over and over again what was happening? Why were these women told not only by Nassar but by others that “They did not know what they were talking about” did they (University Employees and those who work for Team USA) really think that this many women were that clueless as to what was going on with their own bodies.

Nassar is going to pay for this, 175 years to be exact, but others must pay, anyone and everyone that these girls reported these incidences of abuse to at Michigan State University, same as the folks at Team USA. What kind of world are we living in where those in authority use that authority to threaten and intimidate those that there are supposed to protect and guard.

Just today I was in a meeting at work regarding abuse (physical, emotional, finical, and sexual) and when it was made clear to my co-workers and I that we are all mandated reporters and they we are to report any resonable suspicion or known act of abuse to the proper authorities, I wondered to my self, yet again, how could all these people for all these years live with them selfs, go home to their families, many of them more then likely having their own daughters, granddaughters, nieces, how could they go on living knowing what they did and not say anything, and not only not say anything, but when they were told by Nassar’s accusers they were aware of what was going on, then deny it, I always knew there were some messed up people out there, but I had no idea that there were this many, and to be honest, it makes me sick to my stomach that this is the world we are living in, that this is the reality my young nieces are facing.

In the last forty-eight hours MSU President has stepped down, as has the entire USA Gymnastics Board Of Directors, this is something every one of those women that stood in the court room facing Nassar over the last week has deserved.


On to the next story making headlines last week, a California couple accused of horrific abuse of 13 of their 14 children after one of them bravely escaped their house of horror’s we are still learning about the living conditions but what we have learned so far is disturbing to say the least, the children were only fed once day, where chained to their beds were only allowed to shower once a year, were on a a bathroom schedule and could not wash above their wrists.

The Family dogs were treated better then the children, although we have learned that upon further investigation, there have been several bodies of dead animals found in the house.

They kept very odd hours, sleeping during the day and being awake at night, the neighbors never really suspected anything, there were never any signs of neglect or abuse.

We are still learning about this particular horrific event, these children do have loving family members that I imagine would love to be a part of their lives, but this is going to be a slow process, with a lot of de-programing to do.

We Have Got To Stop Accepting This As Our New Normal

Another school shooting, this one a little to close for comfort, not far from my home town of Spokane,Wa. Thats right, by now most of the country knows about the school shooting at Freeman High School, located in Rockford, Washington, about a half hour north east of me…… 3 injured, 1 brave student, who tried to stop the shooter, is dead, I have since learned that earlier this year, his father passed away as well, they had started a Gofund me page to help raise money to put the two kids (Sam, who was killed on Wednesday) and his sister Emily, the page is still up and they are still accepting donations, if you can help, please go here  College fund for Emily Strahan  


Here is what I want to know, how is it that we have gotten to a point in this country where this has become the new normal, where our president seems more concerned about a stupid wall then gun control (notice I see control) I am getting tired of law abiding citizens acting as though the government is coming after their guns, and no, we do not NEED machine guns, some may WANT them.

I think part of reason this bothers me is because my sister and nieces are in school , my sister a 3rd grade teacher, my oldest niece in the 2nd grade and my youngest niece in pre-school, oh and my brother in law works for the school district as well, so yeah school shootings hit me pretty deep.


All these years later after Sandy Hook,Columbine, Aurora, Virginia tech, Freeman, and all the others, to many to list, people are still more concerned about their rights then the lives of innocent people, who did nothing but wake up, go to school, go to work, to a movie, with out fear of losing their lives, when will be able to enjoy life again with out having to worry about weather or not we are going to come home alive at the end of the day?

Fall Premier Season

This week officially (For me any way) started the Fall Season Premier of many shows, Blue Bloods,NCIS,NCIS LA, Grey’s Anatomy, Designated Survivor, Madam Secretary, and so many more that I cannot remember right now, with all these premiers come the Facebook Posts, the Tweets, and of course  the Snapchat and Instagram videos. They say you have to take the good with the bad, in this particular case the good is all of our favorite shows coming back and people talking about it on all the social media outlets I talked about above. The Bad, for me anyway are people who choose to come on Social Media knowing people are talking about these shows then complain about “Spoilers” so here is my plea, if you choose to come onto social media before during or after a show, for the love of God do not complain about people spoiling shows for you, you chose to come on to social media you knew people would be talking about what happened on the shows, you have no one to blame but yourself


9/11……… all you have to do is utter those two numbers and suddenly, no matter where you are, no matter what you are doing, people’s demeanors will change as quickly as our Country did that cold September morning. It’s like asking “Where were you when you heard that JFK was shot, When The Attacks on Pearl Harbor descended, When Space Shuttle Columbia came crashing back to earth” All of these things make us all historians, instantly we are transported, often not by choice, to the exact, day, time and place we were when we heard of these shocking events.


I will share where I was on September 11th 2001. It was a Monday morning, I was getting ready for school, as was my sister(she was a student teacher at the time) and my mom was getting ready for work, all of the sudden, all three of us came into the hall, we looked at one another as if to say “It can’t be true…… can it” we all walked into my parents room like a heard of sheep and watched, much like the rest of the country, what was going on in New York City.

When I got to school,(I was a senior in HS) some people knew, some did not, as the day went on, more people knew, the days classes turned into one hour grief sessions we talked, cried, and supported one another.

And Now, 17 years later, September 11th 2018,  I am still in shock, but even angrier, as this world has become a far more darker cruller place then it was, the way our world was on September 10th 2001, I fear we will never get back, in my eyes, the Terroists have won this country has never been more at odds with one another, and yes, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and snapchat make it all the more easier for us to spew our anger and ugliness at one another but give it that power, all those forums can also be used to spread Love, Kindness, and acceptance.